Once in a Lifetime, "Will you marry me??"

Your relationship has now reached the happy stage where you want to give it a definite seal of permanence.

You want to propose to her and ask her that ‘Will you marry me?’ question, but are wondering how to go about it. Here’s what you can do:

Dad’s permission : For starters, you need to be respectful of your partner’s culture and traditions. Though many may not really agree with this, it always gives a good, respectful feeling to her dad – and to her too, eventually – if you first ask for her father’s permission and approval before you finally pop the question to her.

Be creative : Since this is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, it’s always a good idea to make this moment an unforgettable one for her. So, start by setting the scene. The choice of where to propose depends on the person you want to marry. It could perhaps be a place that holds a special meaning for both of you – maybe where you first met. Or it could be someplace exotic, romantic or exciting. Choose a breathtaking backdrop with romantic music, good food, champagne... All this has to be planned in advance. To add a romantic, mushy touch, a candle-lit dinner is the best option. Get the musicians to play some of her favorite tunes and then pop the question.

Have fun : Give yourself time to get ready, and don’t forget the ring. Don’t be nervous, look her in the eye, and enjoy the moment as you go along. Choose a time when both of you are relaxed and feeling good about each other. Remember, the proposal story will be told over and over again.

Speak straight from the heart : Don’t worry too much about sounding clumsy or awkward, as long as you are speaking from the heart. Remember, you partner would be nervous too and will understand your feelings, and perhaps be enjoying it as well.

An unforgettable moment : How about getting a friend to capture the moment – the smile on your partner’s face and the tears of joy – from a distance, of course. This is a once-in-a-lifetime event that you’ll want to treasure forever. Your partner will thank you for it, after all, who doesn’t like memories of such golden moments captured for posterity?

Take off : If your partner loves the outdoors, take her to a nice romantic place. There, against the backdrop of some scenic surroundings, you can pop the question when she’s least expecting it. She’ll love you for it. Seal it with a bottle of champagne.